What are You Creating?

Centuries ago an unfinished, damaged piece of marble was given to Michelangelo. The hunk of stone had been carved, hammered, and tossed aside. Michelangelo took this discarded slab of rock and from it created the sculpture that is one of the greatest of the Renaissance period. When asked how he did it he simply replied that he removed anything that didn’t look like the man. Focus on what it could be rather than what it was made all the difference.

He never saw damage, he only saw David.

As a leader, your job is to see what your company can be, not what it is or what others have tried to create. Only after you can see and communicate your vision can you and others begin the task of carving away what doesn’t belong.

 

 

 

Elbow Room

Years ago while on a camping trip with my sister, the weather turned cold.  So cold, in fact, we began dressing inside our sleeping bags in the mornings.  The results were iffy at best.  One morning her shirt was on inside out.  One morning my pants were backwards – drawstring hanging like a tail.  You’d think successfully pulling on boots would be easy.  You’d be wrong. 

Turns out changing in such a tight space was nearly impossible.

As a leader, it is your job to see the changes others need to and can make.  Sometimes, because you can clearly see the needed change in behavior patterns, company direction, or client mindset you may become impatient and insistent.  You may clamp down, force the issue and demand progress.  It may work for the short term, but expecting a lasting, effective change in under such conditions is absurd. 

People need space and time to change.  You didn’t get where you are overnight.  They won’t get where they need to be overnight either. 

Give it some room.

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Playground Lessons

As a child I hated playing Follow the Leader.  I could stand it a little longer if I WAS the leader but most often I became tired and bored.  Simply doing what the leader did, stepping where they stepped, moving the way they moved and waving my arms like the leader did nothing for me.  I’d often break off and go watch the boys play tag.

Marco Polo, however, would keep me busy all recess long.  Simple concept –a “lost” someone calls MARCO … the “hidden” someone shouts POLO .. until the two parties find each other.  When they do, one heads off again – leading the way, making it a little harder this time.  MARCO searches and then calls out.  POLO returns the shout and again, they find each other.  It’s a good game.  A little element of discovery made all the difference.

Being a leader doesn’t mean forcing people to follow in your footsteps.  Sometimes people need to discover their path on their own …with just a little guidance along the way.

Any Marcos shouting for you?

 

Cracked-Tooth Leadership

During a particularly stressful time in my life I began eating jawbreakers and found out how
they got their name. My molar cracked in half. The strange thing? It didn't really hurt. I mean the crack hurt and chomping down on my own broken tooth hurt but after the initial shock I was fine. A little too fine. I didn't go to the dentist.

I know, I know, it seems really dumb. Clearly there was something wrong - after all, half my tooth was gone. But pretty quickly I learned to just chew on the other side and if I didn't do anything to aggravate it, it didn't really aggravate me.

Fast forward 12 months and in the middle of a meal it felt like someone stabbed a hot knife into my jaw. One much-needed visit to the dentist later and guess what? Root canal. What's worse? The dentist made sure to tell me that if I had dealt with it when the tooth initially broke, I would have only needed a cap - much less painful and much less expensive.

Leaders are confronted with cracked tooth issues everyday and if not too painful, they are easy to ignore. The most successful leaders, however, don't ignore small issues; instead they jump at opportunities to deal effectively with these issues before they become larger, more painful and more expensive.

Don't wait for the root canal.

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FABLED LEADERSHIP

We all know the story of the tortoise and the hare. The moral of the fable: Slow and steady wins the race.
Um, well, I guess.

Leaders don't always have the luxury of "slow and steady". And often, it is unwise. Leaders most often need to move fast and not doing so results in missed business opportunities, poor decisions and the loss of exceptional employees.

Former Secretary of State General Colin Powell once said when the information gathered in order to make a decision is in the 40-70% range, go with your gut. Basically, when you are between 40-70% sure, make a decision. That's fast. Before 40% is too early, he says, and I think we'd all agree with that. But after 70%, it's too late. Windows close. People move on.

Of course, you can't go running around at the speed of light all the time either. But most of the leaders I encounter don't suffer from moving too fast, or making decisions too soon. They suffer from a chronic turtle's pace. And when they do have to move, they're shell-shocked.

As a leader you need to know what works when. When to go slow and when to move it.

Here's to good hare days.